Am I the only one with a low sex drive?

by Sandy
(Wisconsin)

I have been married for 5 years now and sex has never been like the first 6 months. I am happy with the amount of sex we are currently having (once a week) but my husband has a very high sex drive and wants it every day, that has become a big problem because I can't satisfy his needs and he is not happy. I don't know why I don't feel like having sex more often. When I try to force myself, he tells me that "he can feel the vibe" so he won't do it if he feels like I am forcing myself. I would rather cuddle and watch a movie than have sex. I find him attractive and when we DO have sex I really enjoy it. We communicate a lot and we are looking for possible solutions to this problem, one solution is to "let" him have another sex partner but that seems like a risky situation and I believe it would be unfair to me since I would also like to enjoy other bodies, at least once in a while, not every day! Any ideas?

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Don't do it!
by: Anonymous

Ok Sandy lets talk. You have to come to the realization that if you let your husband go and have fun time with someone else then your going to what to go try it as well and before you no it you'll be living the rest of your lives together on one big lie! Instead look at it like this research shows that having sex 3x a week helps in the reduction of Alzheimer's disease, also hell we all need to loose some more calories off or ass, and hay try to come to an understanding try to start having sex 3x a week and see if that helps. Go out and buy some fun toys, sexy clothes, and do a fantasy every now and then. If that still doesn't work there always gods herb that increases the sex drive and you'll have fun for hours! But remember if all else fails and nothing works, don't be bummed get a divorce and don't forget to tell him as your living the house to stay at the Hampton on his dime that he was by for the worst lay you ever had in your entire life and he'll be hearing from your lawyer!

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