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The Touch of Passion is an easy and sensual couple massag
that will bring you intimacy and ecstasy you never knew before!
The Touch of Passion is an easy and sensual couple massage that will bring you intimacy and ecstasy you never knew before!
What does erotic massage mean to you?
Ten minutes of rubbing your partner's muscles as a prelude to the 'real thing'? If so, this massage for couples is not for you.
Here you'll find another way - intimate, erotic and energetic, to deepen your connection with yourself, your lover and your sexuality.
You will learn an old couple massage, called the Touch of Passion. You will be energized, learn to give and receive pleasure, open your heart and there's even a good chance of having an ecstatic, screaming orgasm.
However... the main focus here is the journey and not the destination.
In our - " Art of Lovemaking " - we teach you different types of couple massage for differnt times and purposes. Learn new, exciting and sexy techniques to practice and bring your sex life to new heights of ecstasy and pleasure. Check it out!
Here is a description of an erotic couple massage, for men and women. It is a universal 'model', that you can and should change and vary to match to your needs and likes. The big advantage is: there's no need for prior knowledge, only attention and love.
Got them? Good, let's go to bed.
The preparations are not complicated.
The most important ingredient is time.
If your plan is that you will both massage each other, then give yourselves at least two hours.
Put the 'do not disturb' sign on the door. Unplug your computers, phones, kids and all other distractions.
Create a romantic atmosphere in your bedroom: flowers, candles, sensual background music, dimmed lights, incense, a cozy temperature...
Take a long shower then put a bottle of massage oil and some towels next to the bed. Don't forget to bring some drinks - you'll be getting hot pretty soon. Fruits and sensual snacks are perfect.
Both of you should be naked.
Who's First?
Choose who receives first and who gives first.
Here's a tip. As a man, you should always give pleasure first.
This will help your woman to heal a common, deep, unconscious distrust that most women have with regard to men.
She can then relax, learn to trust that you do care for her pleasure, and in her turn, will enthusiastically and without inhibitions pleasure you.
Couple Massage - Relaxation
For reasons of clarity, we describe the couple massage as if the man is the giver and the woman the receiver. However, the couple massage is generally the same whether the receiver is a man or a woman. When there are differences, we'll let you know.
As the giver, ask your partner to lie on her back and close her eyes. Ask her to breathe slowly and deeply and listen to the music.
Cover her naked body with a soft sheet, and sit by her feet.
Close your eyes and allow yourself to connect with your own breathing. Relax.
Once you feel at ease open your eyes and look at your partner.
Get in tune with her by following her breathing pattern. Breathe in when you see her belly rise, breathe out when her belly goes down.
Couple Massage - Making Contact
When you are ready to begin the couple massage, gently hold your lover's feet through the sheet.
Now slowly, very slowly, begin to pull the sheet towards you.
The movement of the sheet over her body will send tingling sensations all over her body.
When you've removed the sheet, hold her feet again in your hands then gently lift her feet a few inches off the bed and spread them comfortably apart.
Couple Massage - Feet and Legs
Kneel comfortably between her legs and pour massage oil into your hand. Rub your hands together to warm the oil then begin to massage both her feet simultaneously. Don't be too gentle. This is an energetic massage. Also do not focus on one specific point for too long. The purpose of this couple massage is not to release tension, but to energize your partner and ignite her passion.
Remember to treat every one of her toes - squeeze them, pull them, pinch them - and give special attention to the little toe, as it is a center of a powerful sexual energy.
Now move to the legs. Use a lot of massage oil, and then use some more. Don't spare a drop; this is a celebration.
Massage both legs simultaneously. Start with the ankles and move upward towards the pelvis. Your movements should be long and quite strong (remember, this is an energizing massage). After each upward move, make an opposite movement - down towards the ankles and the feet.
Use plenty of massage oil so that your hands slide easily over her legs; each time moving higher up, towards the pelvis. After each upward stroke, massage with a long stroke down all the way to the feet.
Remember to massage the upper legs, the outer sides, the inner legs as well as underneath her body.
Keep stroking up and down with long, strong massage movements until you reach the genitals and buttocks area. When you move in between your partner's legs, be gentle as you go over the genitals. At this stage take care to stroke your partner's genitals tenderly.
When you have finished with the legs, move to one side of your lover's body and sit next to her belly.
Couple Massage - The Belly
For the next few minutes focus on gently massaging her belly in circular movements, one hand following the other. Take care not to change direction in the middle of a movement so as not to upset your partner.
Remind your partner to keep breathing slowly and deeply.
After a few moments move your hands around to the other side of her body, under her ribs - as far as you can take your hands. Bring both your hands back, one after the other, from the other side of her body towards your side, massaging her abdominal area. Keep massaging her this way, from the other side of her body towards you.
After a while, you can move to sit on the other side of your partner's body, and repeat this massage.
When you feel satisfied, move and sit in between her legs once again.
Begin to massage her in long, continuous strokes. Start under her breasts then move over her belly, pelvis and legs all the way down to her feet.
Keep massaging up and down her body, for a few moments; from her feet up to her belly and back again. Again, make long, continuous movements. Don't forget to alternate between the top over her body, the sides, between her legs (remember to be tender with the genitals) and the underside of her body.
When you are ready, move again to sit on one of her sides.
Couple Massage - Chest and Breasts
This time you will massage your partner's breasts and chest area.
This is a physically and emotionally sensitive area, for both men and women. Pay attention to your partner, so that you notice any signs of uneasiness, as well as signs of pleasure and arousal.
Once again, you are going to make circular movements, and you will need to use plenty of massage oil.
Begin by placing your hands between your partner's breasts then start massaging both breasts together in circular movement.
Be gentle.
When you see that your partner is enjoying your touch, take the time, every now and then, to give extra attention to her nipples (also to his - in his turn). You may stroke, hold or gently pinch the nipples. You can use your mouth, lips and tongue while still massaging the breasts in circular movements.
When you (and your partner) have finished this part, move both your hands to the far side of your partner's upper body, and as you did earlier, using one hand after the other, massage back towards your side. Make sure you massage all over her upper body, from under the breasts and up to the shoulders.
After a few minutes, once you feel satisfied, move again to the position between your partner's legs. Massage her body in long, continuous movements from her shoulders, across her chest, belly, pelvis and over the legs all the way down to her feet and then back up to the shoulders. Alternate those long massage strokes between the top over her body, the sides, between her and the underside of her body.
Couple Massage - The Genitals
By now, whenever you reach your partner's genitals, he or she may already be well aroused.
While keeping the rhythm of the massage, it is time to give the genitals more attention.
Her genitals: if she is aroused, whenever you move from the belly across the genitals and on to the legs, make sure one of your fingers strokes her clitoris and gently slides touching-not-touching over the opening of her vagina. Whenever you move up from the legs over her genitals and to her belly, slide one finger gently into the opening of her vagina. Moisten your finger then move up to stroke the clitoris.
Do not focus too much attention on the vagina or the clitoris. Your touch should be as if 'by the way'. This will keep your woman relaxed and let her know that you are not yet planning penetration. At the same time it will drive her crazy with passion.
His genitals: if he is aroused, whenever you massage up from the legs over his genitals and on to his belly, gently stroke his balls and slide your hand 'milking' his penis from base to tip. When you move down from his belly and over his genitals to his legs, make the opposite movement.
Make sure not to change the massage into masturbation, even if you think that this is what he really wants (or needs), as his penis trembles in your hand.
Do not be discouraged if he loses his erection at one point, or does not have one at all. Remember, the purpose of this couple massage is to energize the whole body and allow passion to flow freely, not to reach orgasm.
It does not matter if your man ejaculates. Just make sure to pay a little less attention to his penis, which is now in a very sensitive state.
OK, back to the couple massage...
Couple Massage - Hands and Arms
When you are ready, move again to your partner's side.
Sit comfortably and begin massaging the fingers, hand, lower arm, upper arm and shoulder. Do this in the same way that you massaged the legs; however use both hands to treat each of your partner's arms.
When you have finished one arm, move to the other side of your partner and repeat the massage to the other arm.
When you have finished with both arms, sit again between your partner's legs and perform the usual long, continuous massage strokes all the way from the shoulders over the chest, belly, genitals and legs all the way down to the feet then back up to the shoulders.
Do that for as long as it feels right and then move to sit by your partner's head.
Couple Massage - Upper Back, Neck and Head
Start by massaging your partner shoulder blades, her upper back and neck.
When you have done this for a while, raise your partner's head and let it rest in the palms of your hands. Your hands should be resting on the mattress.
Remain in this position for a few minutes, allowing your partner to relax in your gentle support.
Couple Massage - Completion
When you are ready, gently lay your partner's head back on the mattress.
Bring her legs together and cover her softly with the sheet and tuck her in, as you would do to a little child.
Then sit by her side and let her slowly return back to normal consciousness.
As you notice her return, use a piece of juicy fruit to playfully tease her lips before allowing her to eat it. Find a gentle way of welcoming her back and then slip under the sheet next to her. Stay there for a while, cuddled up together.
When both of you are ready, change roles and start all over.
Couple Massage - and Then...?
If you both get hot and passionate and you wish to elevate this couple massage further into full and loving intercourse, go ahead.
Ready? Wait...
OK, so you are now ready to practice this couple massage!
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