Art of Lovemaking - Daily Tip
Today's lovemaking tip is about...
Communication in Bed
It should come as little surprise that lack of communication in relationships can lead to all sorts of problems in the bedroom.
Ask yourself this question - can you talk honestly about sex to your partner? Can you convince yourself that your partner won't think less of you when you demand your pleasure in the bedroom?
When you add the "language of love" to your sexual repertoire,
these worries end. This "language" does many things - it helps
enhance desire even while expressing your needs to your lover.
You can sound warm and inviting, flirtatious, provocative or
even bold. But never demanding or bullying.
Sometimes language doesn't have to be verbal. For example, the lusty language of love involves those wicked looks that pass between you and your lover, as well as those surreptitious gropes when no one is looking (or so you might think). Tender language, on the other hand, allows you two to minister gently to one another, and be caring with your touches. Then there is the fantasy type of communication, when you're totally open with your lover, and you becomes the "instructor" as you teach your lover what pleasures you the most...
When you receive this lesson, you'll learn a great deal about communication in the bedroom, and how such communication can end up enhancing your s.e.x. life to a wonderful degree. The lesson will also help take you through the fear of speaking up... and lead you on the road to a closer relationship with your partner.
This tip is taken from Lesson 11 of the Art of Lovemaking course.