Art of Lovemaking - Daily Tip
Today's lovemaking tip is about...
You Are Mine: Power Games
"B&D," or bondage and dominance, are sex games that are
considered by many to be taboo - yet there aren't many people who haven't had a quick thought about what it would like to be tied up, spanked or "forced" into having sex.
Playing power games with your lover (as long as you're both in
agreement of going there; and this must be consensual) is simply
one more link of trust between the two of you. You trust that
you'll keep the discipline and dominance as a game, and not use
it as a way to hurt one another. You trust that you'll both know
when to stop if things get too rough. And you trust that you won't
judge one another poorly when the game has ended and you're back
to your "real life" identities.
Generally in power games, there is a dominant and submissive
partner. The dominant partner "doles out" the power (verbal
commands, spankings or whatever), while the submissive partner
accepts it (and oftentimes begs for more). Some couples switch
roles, while others feel more comfortable simply settling into
their roles for the duration.
A basic B&D game is master and slave. This can be highly arousing; especially if the woman takes on the role of dominatrix. If you're the dominatrix, the list of what you can make him do is endless. Make him crawl, tie him up, have him service you... and more.
In addition to providing some ideas for bedroom power games, this lesson goes into the importance of constant communication and agreement as you two have this type of sex game.
This tip is taken from Lesson 47 of the Art of Lovemaking course.