Art of Lovemaking - Daily Tip
Today's lovemaking tip is about...
Self-Pleasuring
When it comes to the Art of Lovemaking, masturbation - which we also refer to as "self-pleasuring" - involves more than simply getting yourself off; although self-pleasuring is definitely a
great way to release tension. Self-pleasuring is your key to sexual exploration. It helps you become familiar with your body's needs and wants more intimately. In this lesson, you learn about self-pleasure as a path to gratification and self-acceptance, rather than simply climaxing.
The first time you follow this lesson, it's a good idea to do it
alone and to have plenty of time on hand. Begin by creating an
erotic environment with music and scents. Make sure you have a
lubricant on hand (a water-based one, such as KY Jelly or
Astroglide). Take off your clothes, examine your genitals in the
mirror... note how they look when they're relaxed, then aroused.
Then lube up your fingers and begin to touch yourself slowly and
carefully, paying attention to what feels good and what works
for you...
When you review this lesson, you'll find different ways about
how to self-pleasure (both for men and women). You'll also learn
how to best spread the sexual energy throughout your body for a
final, full-body orgasmic experience.
This tip is taken from Lesson 9 of the Art of Lovemaking course.