Art of Lovemaking - Daily Tip
Today's lovemaking tip is about...
Accepting Pleasure
When it comes to sexual experiences, a great deal has been written and said about giving pleasure. But surprisingly, there isn't a whole lot out there about the ability to RECEIVE pleasure as well. When it comes to a great lovemaking experience, it's just as important to know how to receive pleasure, as it is to give it. When you allow yourself to receive pleasure from your lover, you can deepen your commitment to your relationship.
This seems like such a simple thing - but it's difficult for many people to know how to receive pleasure. An inability to receive pleasure isn't a gender-specific thing. Anything that distracts you from your sexual focus and pulls your attention elsewhere can prevent you from accepting pleasure. But accepting pleasure is fine - it's healthy, healing and essential for a healthy, sexual relationship.
When you begin the lesson on receiving pleasure, you decide which partner will give pleasure and who will receive. If you are giving pleasure, you begin with slow, simple caresses over the other's body (avoiding the genitals), focusing on how you can make your partner feel good with your touch. And if you receive pleasure, you open yourself up to your partner's touch, experiencing it fully and banishing any guilt or concern you might have about not "giving back."
In this lesson, we go more into detail about both pleasuring and receiving pleasure - and you'll learn that it's just as okay to enjoy yourself as it is to provide enjoyment to your partner.
This tip is taken from Lesson 8 of the Art of Lovemaking course.