Art of Lovemaking - Daily Tip
Today's lovemaking tip is about...
Using Tantric Sex to Be in the Moment
Lovemaking is something that should be savored. The problem is,
we live in a society in which fast is better. To prevent this attitude from coming into the bedroom, we suggest relying on tantric sex to slow things down and add more enjoyment to sex.
The concept of tantric s.e.x. involves the act of you and your lover coming together, rather than just coming. Tantric sex is lovemaking without striving for the orgasm. You still indulge in intercourse, but doing so without moving toward orgasm helps you stay in the present moment, and ultimately experience more pleasure and harmony with your lover.
To begin tantric sex, it's important for both of you to be relaxed - and you must decide which partner will arouse the other. If you are the man who is giving pleasure, have your partner lie down either on a soft rug or bed, and begin to relax her through massage. Once she's relaxed, gently touch her erogenous zones and genitals, pausing frequently to allow her to experience her exquisite sensations. When she lets you know, it will be time to enter her...
This lesson will teach you to go beyond simply having sex to savoring the act of physical love with slow, careful movements and a great deal of loving communication.
This tip is taken from Lesson 37 of the Art of Lovemaking course.