Art of Lovemaking - Daily Tip
Today's lovemaking tip is about...
My Hands are Tied - Bondage Games
Bondage is one of those things that a lot of people might fantasize about - but very few people actually bring out into the open. This is partly because bondage is considered by many to be painful, kinky, and therefore, undesirable.
But in this lesson, you'll learn how to use bondage appropriately, as a fun and stimulating tool to help boost your love life, rather than as something potentially painful or humiliating.
There is something inherently erotic about allowing your partner all sorts of liberties with your body while you lie before him/her, bound and helpless. Knowing you can't touch your partner (or much of anything else for that matter) can boost your own arousal. Bondage is also an issue of trust between you and your partner (meaning bondage must be a consensual activity).
There are many ways to bind your partner - but the best way to begin is to use soft scarves or ties you might have around the
house. Once you have the ties, wrists can be tied to bedposts.
Or, lacking bedposts, many people enjoy having their wrists tied
together, above their heads.
In some cases, the feet can be tied,
too. The basic position involves the scarf (or rope) being
wrapped completely around one wrist, than the other. Once the
submissive partner is bound, the dominant partner can have his
way with him/her.
This lesson teaches you how to explore you and your partner's
sensuality through bondage, and also provides method by which
you two can communicate during the activity. When it comes to
bondage, only your imagination or creativity limits you.
This tip is taken from Lesson 45 of the Art of Lovemaking course.