Straight-Forward Advice On Marriage That Works! - part 1

by Larry Bilotta

Let's face it; if you're looking for advice on marriage, you could spend DAYS researching on the internet without even scratching the surface of all the marriage advice that's out there.

But the sad fact is, that's what most people in your situation do...they RESEARCH...but never ACT on the concepts and ideas they learn about because they come up with "excuses" for why THEIR situation is DIFFERENT.

Well let me tell you....your situation is NOT different. And as EXTREME as MY marriage was...my "situation" was NOT different either...

So why am I qualified to give YOU advice on marriage? Because I managed to save my marriage...on my own...after 27 years of fighting, car chases and battles over her way vs. my way.

Our marriage was as bad as it gets.

You see, I married my COMPLETE OPPOSITE. In fact, you'd think we were from different planets if you compared our habits, values, priorities and temperaments... and that's before you take into account our male/female differences....which brings me to one of the best pieces of advice on marriage that I can give you...

1. LEARN THE "5 LOVE LANGUAGES"

 

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When I discovered this critical bit of advice on marriage, it really opened my eyes as to EXACTLY what made my wife happy. Often times we wish our spouse would treat us a certain way, but we never actually tell them what it is that we want them to do!

Gary Chapman, author of the book, The Five Live Languages, makes it easy for you to communicate what you need from your spouse to feel loved...and what they need from you!

When I found out what made my wife feel loved...I was SHOCKED!

She wanted "acts of service" of all things! I thought that since I liked "words of affirmation"...that she would too!

I hated doing "acts of service" (a.k.a. chores around the house, gardening and repairs) and that's exactly why I wasn't meeting her needs! I didn't realize what I was doing wrong until I read this book.

...which reminds me...here's another great piece of advice on marriage you need to keep in mind...

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