Straight-Forward Advice On Marriage That Works! - part 2
by Larry Bilotta
Many couples make the BIG mistake of treating their spouse the way they WISH their spouse would treat THEM!
In other words, smothering your spouse in hugs and kisses isn't going to make him/her want to hug/kiss YOU more if what they actually need from YOU is "acts of service" like taking out the trash or cleaning the house!
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Now I've never seen anyone talk about this last piece of advice on marriage, so pay close attention...
2. YOU CAN'T IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE UNLESS YOU FEEL LIKE IT FIRST
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But unfortunately, that's not how REAL married life works. I could give you a long list of advice on marriage that would improve your relationship, but that list won't do you any good. If you're like most married couples, you won't act on ANY advice on marriage... until you first feel like doing it FIRST.
Telling you to "go do something" to improve your marriage is NOT going to make a difference in your relationship when you resent your spouse and feel SO negative that you can't even bring yourself to do it!
The key is actually FEELING LIKE doing something positive for your marriage...and THEN doing it.
Believe me; it's MUCH easier to do something nice for your spouse when you're feeling optimistic about your marriage...than it is to "force" yourself to be the first one to take a step towards a better marriage.
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