How A Marriage Counseling Secret Can Save Your Marriage - part 1
by Lee Hefner
How do you react if your spouse announces "I want a divorce" or something similar? With shock? Surprise? Outrage?
If these are your reactions, you've got plenty of company. Thousands of spouses each year have this same experience. Many surprised partners in this situation begin to grill their unhappy mate with questions like "What in the #%& do you mean you want a divorce? After all I've done for you!"
Unfortunately, this approach doesn't make the dissatisfied spouse change her (or his) mind. If anything, it makes them dig in their heels.
The key to keeping your marriage begins with a simple but misunderstood word: Acceptance.
What is acceptance? It means respecting and accepting your spouse's point of view, even when you don't fully understand it.
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To help you understand how acceptance is important in stopping your divorce, let me share a story with you.
There was a tennis player on a college team whose coach had told her that her serve needed practice. But she refused to accept and act on the coach's feedback. Again, her coach implored her to work on her technique after she spiraled into a losing streak.
Clearly, her career on the court would be short-lived unless she took her coach's advice to heart. Finally after losing another match to an archrival in a tournament, the coach issued an ultimatum. The player would either have to do what it took to improve or leave the team.
This athlete finally came to accept what her problem was - poor technique on her serves. Before that, she'd been unwilling to do the necessary work to enhance her performance. But once she had accepted the situation as it was, she was able to move forward and improve her game.
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