Tips For Marriage Counseling - part 2
by Vivek Sharma
It is always said to be wise for having a phone interview with the marriage counselor and therapist before making an appointment. If that is not feasible then use your first meeting as question answer session. You should ask a number of questions to the therapist, as it is you who can save your marriage from the disaster. If you find that therapist is not able to answer your queries with ease, and then go in for someone else with the experience.
Always ask the questions regarding the marriage counselor's background and reputation in the beginning. Try to assess his or her approach towards relationships - is it salvaging or dissolving them? If a marriage counselor or therapist suddenly jumps to one side of the question it is advisable to look for someone else. The marriage counselor should be neutral and never tell you that he or she is against divorce. God forbid, it shouldn't happen with you but if it happens, then marriage therapist should guide you both in your decision-making and alteration if required.
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At any point during the meeting with marriage counselor you sense biasness or unfairness, simply change the therapist. Marriage counselor's main aim is to give equal support and attention to both the partners. He or she should be objective enough to highlight your problems and issues without making you feel "right" or "wrong". Quite often you tend to feel that therapist is pointing at you again and again which can't be comfortable always. If you judge that it's you who is left alone and not heard frequently then it is sensible to look out for another marriage counselor. It is not good to be pointed out as a bad guy or girl always. The worse thing that can happen to your bad marriage is a bad marriage therapist.
Copyright (c) Vivek Sharma
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