Help! Marriage Problem - part 2
by Donald Mills
Tuning out.
Even in the midst of a fight you will do yourself a favor by at least considering your spouses point of view. Closing your ears and jumping on every sentence with the rage of defensiveness leads to a never ending battle that nobody wins. At least if you can make the attempt to create an atmosphere of rationality you have taken a step towards being able to communicate with each other.
Telling them that you have them pegged.
You dig yourself into a hole when you begin to make comments regarding how predictable you think they are, or when you try to sum up their entire personality as one negative trait.
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In general, it's of great importance to pay close attention to how you use language in relating to your spouse. It's usually easier to snap and lay blame than to summon the presence of mind to calm down and speak rationally. But it's necessary, and by the way, who said marriage was easy?
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Copyright (c) Donald Mills
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