Common Marriage Problems - Complacency Is Like The Plague - part 1
by Terry Ross
Complacency like many other common marriage problems is a bit like the plague. It's catching and it spreads, you don't hear it and you don't see it and by the time you realise what is happening the damage is done.
Don't ever become complacent, like everything else in life marriage has to be worked at, the relationship nurtured and your partner cared for. If you've fallen into the common marriage problems trap and let the rot set in but want to save your marriage my advice is to go back to basics.
It is so easy to fall into a daily routine, fuelled by responsibilities and just forget what relationships are all about. With so much to do each day, and without the need to plan to meet each other, relationships tend to be pushed to the back, treated as something that doesn't need to be attended to and left to just bumble along.
Often we fail to make time for our partners and when we do, it's often some stolen moments at the end of a long hard day when we lack the energy to show how much we love and appreciate each other and are just too tired to have any fun.
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When spouses begin to feel neglected they often start with the subtle plea, a gentle reminder that they feel that they aren't important any more, that they feel unloved, undervalued and that another of those common marriage problems, boredom with the daily routine has set in. And so the rot begins......
It is all too easy to brush aside their pleas, just assume that they know you love them, expect them to understand that you are tired, believe that they will understand that you don't have the time and all too soon forget the initial signs that the marriage is in trouble.
If you continue to ignore the early unrest it can seem a clear indication to your partner that life is more important than they are. It won't matter that you are getting stick at work or that the children need ferrying around or that other responsibilities are getting in the way, they will just see this big neon sign saying 'you don't love me any more', you don't want to save your marriage, no advice, no gentle nudge, no subtle plea is going to make a difference.
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Common Marriage Problems - Complacency Is Like The Plague
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