Marriage Problems: Help In Preventing Them - part 1

by Lee Wilson

When we want to be successful at something in life, we usually don't attempt to "wing it." That's why those who want to play the piano take lessons. No one can sit down at a piano for the first time and play Mozart or Beethoven. Sure, most anyone can peck on the keys long enough to figure out "Chop Sticks" or "Mary Had a Little Lamb," but that's hardly musical success. An instructor will teach us what keys produce certain musical notes, what techniques to use to access those keys and how to determine musical notes from written symbols in order to play pieces of music.

Once we've received basic education and training, it is up to us to practice and develop what we we've learned. After years of practicing, one can become adequate at making music with a piano. Clearly, success does not belong to a beginner.

Yet we often assume that success in marriage will come without any instruction or practice. Many times, we rely on some mysterious shared chemistry or compatibility and then when things don't run smoothly, we assume that individual differences are to blame. In the sad cases, divorce lawyers entitle them, "irreconcilable differences."

 

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Usually those struggling in marriage don't question their techniques or decide they are going to start practicing with a resource or a professional. Unmarried couples usually don't seek to learn correct fundamentals and techniques to practice in their future marriage. Because of this, many people are setting themselves up for failure.

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Things to remember and practice:

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My husband and I have many marriage problems after 12 years. Religious differences are a big problem that I?
didn't forsee being a problem but turned into a very big one. I'm a Christian and he's an Atheist. I made the mistake of thinking I could change him. We also have different feelings in many other areas and his emotional reactions to everything are very different than what I can handle anymore, from showing no emotion when I miscarred to many other things as well. I really dont know what to do. My religion says divorce is a no, no matter what, unless he leaves me, and he doesn't want to. What can I do to feel closer to him and deal with the differences?
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