How To Reviving Romance In Marriage - part 2
by Richmond Acheampong
Relationship Wish List: Both of you get a piece of paper and write down 10 to 15 things, you want the other partner to do for you (make sure it's not degrading or painful). It can be going out on dates every week, back rubs, letting you go out with friends, etc. Be sure to include even those things you think are petty and trivial, like putting socks in the blue laundry hamper instead of the red one (it's all part of expressing the real you). Once you're done, exchange lists and talk about it.
1. Were there things on your partner's list you expected to see? 2. Were there any surprises on your spouse's list? 3. How did you feel about sharing your wish list? Hesitant? Excited? Embarrassed, or relieved? If so why? 4. How do you feel about doing the things your spouse wants?
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If there are items on the lists that make you or your spouse uncomfortable, talk about them and negotiate something else. No one should feel coerced into doing anything uncomfortable, because it damages trust. After reviewing and discussing each other's wish list, take one suggestion and implement it. Every month add a new suggestion (from each other's list) to your routine, and continue to do so until the list is completed. The key to success for this exercise is patience; don't expect perfection, be patient with each other as you try to establish new routines in your relationship.
After being vulnerable with your true feelings, the level of love and security in your relationship will grow. Especially when both partners are accepting and supportive of the other's feelings and wishes. Under these conditions the level of deep communication thrives and love flourishes. As your appreciation for your spouse grows, the passion and romance is revived.
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