Romance Quiz
Are You Committed to Your Relationship
| 1. | Given the opportunity, would you ever cheat on your partner if there was no chance that they'd find out about it? | |
| a. | Yes, definitely | |
| b. | Maybe | |
| c. | Not likely | |
| d. | Never | |
| 2. | How do you picture your relationship with your partner five years from now? | |
| a. | It will be as good as, or even better than, it is now | |
| b. | You wouldn't be surprised if you were no longer together | |
| c. | You could see yourself still together, but who really knows what will happen in the future | |
| d. | You take things day-by-day and don't think too much about the future | |
| 3. | How do you feel about breaking up? | |
| a. | "Breaking up" is not in your vocabulary | |
| b. | It should be used as a last resort after all other avenues have been exhausted | |
| c. | It is the best option for two people who are unhappy in their relationship | |
| d. | It would be sad, but there are other fish in the sea | |
| 4. | What do you do when you are unhappy about an issue in your relationship? | |
| a. | Talk to your partner about is | |
| b. | Keep it to yourself | |
| c. | Fight with your partner about it | |
| d. | Take all necessary measures (e.g. - marriage counseling) to resolve the issue | |
| 5. | If you could go back in time to before you started dating, would you still want to do everything over and be with this person? | |
| a. | Yes, definitely | |
| b. | Probably | |
| c. | Probably not | |
| d. | Definitely not | |
| 6. | How would you feel to be single again? | |
| a. | Wonderful - it would be very liberating for you | |
| b. | OK - if you had to be single again, you'd deal with it | |
| c. | Not sure - you wouldn't know unless it happened | |
| d. | Not good - it would be very lonely | |
| e. | Terrible - you would miss your partner too much | |
| 7. | Do you ever wish that you were single? | |
| a. | All the time | |
| b. | Occasionally | |
| c. | Rarely | |
| d. | Never | |
| 8. | What is the main reason you are together right now? | |
| a. | Because you are deeply in love with your partner | |
| b. | Because even though your relationship is not perfect, you're trying to solve the problems | |
| c. | Because you don't want to be single | |
| d. | Because you are afraid of what others would think of you if you split up | |
| e. | None of these | |
| 9. | How does the thought of seeing your partner day-in and day-out for the rest of your life make you feel? | |
| a. | Absolutely wonderful | |
| b. | Really great | |
| c. | Pretty good | |
| d. | Somewhat troubling | |
| e. | Awful | |
| 10. | How often do you think about having an affair? | |
| a. | Often | |
| b. | Rarely or never | |
| c. | Occasionally - but would never actually have one | |
| d. | You are currently having an affair or have had one | |
| 11. | If your partner admitted to cheating on you, what would you do? | |
| a. | End the relationship | |
| b. | Stay together and go to marriage counseling | |
| c. | Separate and go to marriage counceling to try to resolve things | |
| d. | Trust that your partner is really sorry and would never do it again | |
| e. | Cheat on your partner, to get even | |
Scoring
| 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 |
| a=1 | a=3 | a=3 | a=2 | a=3 | a=1 | a=1 | a=3 | a=3 | a=1 | a=1 |
| b=2 | b=1 | b=2 | b=1 | b=2 | b=1 | b=1 | b=2 | b=3 | b=3 | b=3 |
| c=3 | c=2 | c=2 | c=1 | c=1 | c=2 | c=2 | c=1 | c=2 | c=2 | c=2 |
| d=3 | d=2 | d=1 | d=3 | d=1 | d=2 | d=3 | d=1 | d=1 | d=1 | d=3 |
| e=3 | e=2 | e=1 | e=1 |
What Your Score Means
12 to 19: You Need to Relax 11 to 16: You Are Not Very Committed
It appears that you are thinking twice about this relationship and if it's right for you. There are several issues that have gone unresolved, and as a result, you feel distanced from your partner. You may have watched many of your friends and family members go through a breakup, and may be considering this as a solution. Perhaps it is time to sit down with your partner and have a serious discussion about your future together. Don't be afraid to see professional help; many relationships can be turned around when communication gaps are bridged. Good luck!
17 to 22: You Are Somewhat Committed
You enjoy the security of being in a couple, and would really like your relationship to work. However, at times it seems as if there are too many roadblocks in the way of harmony. When problems arise, you and your partner tend to avoid tackling the issues. Instead, your frustrations are frequently expressed in other ways that are less pragmatic and only serve to divide the two of you. There are many qualities that you love about your mate - try to remember them during the difficult times. Work on opening up the lines of communication with your partner. Once you understand each other, problems will be easier to resolve.
23 to 26: You are Quite Committed
You feel very strongly making your relationship succeed and try your best to communicate with your partner about issues that arise. Most of the time, you are content. However, like most relationships, there are times when you question whether you can really stay with your partner. There are so many qualities that you love about each other, and you really want this person to be happy. During the difficult periods in your relationship, take the time to reflect on what each of you could do to bring the two of you closer together; any positive change is a step toward deeper intimacy.
29 to 33: You Are Very Committed
Congratulations! You look like you will be able to stick by your mate's side for the long haul. You are willing to do whatever it takes to make your relationship work. You take a proactive approach to keeping your relationship strong, and when trouble does arise, you work hard to resolve the problems. You are not just in love with the idea of being in a couple - you are in love with your partner as a person, and would do anything to make your relationship succeed. You have set yourself up for a long ad happy co-existence - keep up the good work!
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