Romance Quiz
How Spicy is Your Relationship?

Is Your Marriage in Trouble?
1. You are sexually intimate with your partner:
a. Every day
b. 2-3 times a month
c. 2-3 times a week
d. Hardly ever
2. When you dress for bed, you typically wear:
a. Nothing at all
b. Flannel or cotton pajamas
c. Anything that's sexy
d. Something that you know your lover finds cute
3. Something that you know your lover finds cute
a. Interesting
b. Adventurous
c. Routine
d. Emotional
4. When you fight with you partner, you:
a. Scream and yell
b. Give each other the cold shoulder
c. Wind up having sex in the middle
d. Debate until you reach a compromise
e. You never fight
5. Your relationship is full of:
a. Surprises
b. Predictability
c. Comfort
d. Spontaneity
6. You fight with your partner:
a. Often
b. Never
c. Occasionally
d. More often than not
7. Having sex with your partner typically involves:
a. One favorite position
b. Multiple positions that you couldn't name
c. A couple of positions
d. Multiple positions and locations
8. When you go out in public, you and your partner:
a. Introduce each other as friends
b. Hold hands or put your arm around each other
c. Can't keep your hands off each other
d. Show affection when appropriate
9. Your partner pulls out a sex toy during foreplay. You:
a. Scream with delight
b. Scream in horror
c. Decide to try it despite initial reservations
d. Think it is disgusting and feel rejected that s/he wants a mechanical device to satisfy him/her
e. Choose not to try it but use it for inspiration to revive your sex life
10. A fun night out with your partner is:
a. A distant memory of the past
b. A frequent occurrence
c. An occasional treat
d. A sure thing when you have time for it

Scoring

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
a=3 a=3 a=2 a=3 a=3 a=3 a=1 a=1 a=3 a=1
b=2 b=1 b=3 b=1 b=1 b=1 b=3 b=2 b=1 b=3
c=3 c=3 c=1 c=3 c=2 c=2 c=2 c=3 c=2 c=1
d=1 d=2 d=2 d=2 d=3 d=3 d=3 d=2 d=1 d=2
e=1 e=2

What Your Score Means

10 to 16: Your Relationship Needs Some Pepper

Has your relationship settled into complacency? If you feel that things are a little too comfortable, you may need to add a dash of romance or the occasional element of surprise to spice things up!. Everyone needs to feel desired - so consider surprising your partner with some sexy underwear or romantic love letter. Relationships take effort and thought to keep things fresh and exciting over time.

17 to 23: Your Relationship is Moderately Spicy

You balance spice with sugar in your relationship for the perfect blend of spiciness. You keep romance alive and interest in each other peaked without resorting to fights for attention. Consideration for your partner and friendship add romantic flavor in your relationship. Things are comfortable without being boring. You don't need stunts and drama to make things flavorful, your natural patterns are spicy enough!

24 to 30: Your Relationship is Hot 'n' Spicy

You sizzle away in your tempestuous, spicy relationship. You like adventure, romance, experimentation and those hot fights, too. Just be careful that the drama in your relationship is for fun and not added as an attempt to get extra attention and create unneeded excitement. A relationship that lasts over time requires friendship and compassion more than spice and sizzle.

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