The Top 5 Reasons Why Second Marriages Fail - part 2
by Larry Bilotta
Good FEELINGS are NOT proof you've found a good match. Now I don't mean to "burst your bubble", but if you ONLY get married because of your feelings for each other, you're setting yourself up for failure.
4. Been There, Done That
It's easier to get a divorce in a second marriage because there's no fear of the unknown like there was when you contemplated divorce in your first marriage. People in a second marriage are far LESS willing to forgive and forget their spouse's little imperfections, yet they're MORE willing to call it quits because they've been through divorce before.
But at no point in time do they ever stop and look at themselves and the part that THEY played in the failure of their last marriage- they just move on in their quest for Mr. or Mrs. Right instead of trying to improve their current relationship.
5. Which is it; YOUR Money, MY Money or OUR Money?
Whether you like it or not, MONEY plays a big part in every marriage. But what most money problems really boil down to is.TRUST. When couples get married, they're faced with the question of combined or separate income.
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When women are faced with husbands who insist on separate incomes, they feel insecure, but more importantly, they begin to sense distrust. And after all, what she's looking for is financial and emotional security.
So when her husband insists on "your money" and "my money", she sees it as insinuating that she cannot be trusted with his finances. Since she's not sure whether her husband is out to protect HER or protect himself FROM her, this trust issue will ALWAYS be a strain on the second marriage unless it is openly discussed.
Now that you know the top 5 reasons why second marriages fail you can go into your second marriage completely aware of the pitfalls that blind-side 60% of those who remarry for the second time. The best advice I can give you is get everything out in the open before you make a commitment.
It may not be very 'romantic' to discuss your beliefs and values about issues like money and children, but if you want to make your second marriage your last - it's absolutely CRITICAL you discover any drawbacks that could potentially destroy your new marriage.
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