Sex after baby born is boring... What to do?

by CCB
(North Carolina)

I've been married for about a year and a half, have one 10 month old baby, and I just don't like sex anymore.

No matter what we do to change things up, it still seems like the same old boring thing to me.

I'm way stressed out with being a husband, father, full-time college student (and hating every minute of it), and practically a full-time job too.

By the end of the day, I just don't care about anything but playing with my son and getting some much needed rest.

She's had sex with someone else, and I haven't, and sometimes I wonder what it would be like with someone else.

I don't want to cheat on her.

I'm committed to being a good dad to my son and a good husband to her, the same way that my parents were.

Her father left her family when she was in high school, and now we laugh at how bad off he is and how we all dislike him.

Got any suggestions?