Sensory Awakening Tantric Ritual -
Increase Your Sexual Pleasure
Here is a question that we receive often:
"Our sex life became dull and boring...
... We've tried different kinds of stimulations that worked for a while and then subsided again. It seems that now we need ever growing stimulus to turn us on.
WHAT TO DO?
Increasing the sexual stimulation can bring temporary excitement and newness. It will work for a while, but for the next time you will need even a stronger stimulation.
There is another way.
This tantric ritual comes from the Tantra tradition and was practiced for thousands of years.
The idea is to increase your sensitivity instead of increasing the outside stimulation.
To experience this approach try the following sensory awakening tantric ritual.
Create for yourself a space and time when you won't be disturbed.
You will exchange turns for this ritual, so choose who is going to be active and who is going to be receptive first.
The active partner is going to present the experience.
Prepare the space as magical and as beautiful as your imagination goes.
The active partner prepare the following items (or similar):
- A choice of essential oils that are attractive to your partner.
- Musical instruments such as bells, cymbals, flute or Tibetan singing bowl.
- Several items for sensual touching, such as piece of fur and a feather.
- Sensuous food such as grapes, pineapple cubes, glass with a bit of liqueur and some chocolate mints.
When you ready bring the receptive partner into the room with his/her eyes blindfolded.
Smelling.
Bring a bottle of essential oil close to the recipient's nose.
Slowly pass other scents under his/her nostrils. Allow one or two minutes between scents.
Hearing.
Now take your partner on a journey into sound and music.
Begin by introducing just one sound. Add more sounds as you go along.
Tasting.
Dip one of the grapes in the liqueur. Bring it close to your partner nostrils.
After a moment caress his/her lips with the grape.
Take your time.
Finally press the grape into your partner's lips, and allow the fruit to go in slowly.
Take a break for a minute or two, and then continue with the other tastes, as well as your finger dipped in liqueur.
Touching.
Begin to touch your partner with various textures, such as a soft old-fashioned shaving brush, a piece of silk, a feather or your hair.
Let your imagination go.
Take a minute or two between each sensation, and play gently with your partner's whole body.
And then, with utmost gentleness, as if you had never touched him/her before stroke your partner's body with your hand or hair.
When you feel complete, slowly take off your partner's blindfold.
Take the time to thank each other.
And when you are ready, change over.
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