Too confused

by Tom
(Tampa, Florida)

I think my wife is so, so hot! I want to have sex with her every day but the problem is and it is a problem she seem to not want sex at all.

On the few times a year we do have sex she only wants to do it in the bedroom in the bed and she never wants to oral sex me although she always want me to oral sex her.

For me sex is uneventful, boring.

I think that is her problem. She is bored with sex. I have tried everything to heat up our sex life but nothing seems to work. I have tried toys, candles and hot baths together, buying her sexy nighties, trying to get her to do it in other rooms other than the bedroom but still no joy.

I am a the point, and it is sad to say because I love her more than life itself, but I am starting to look at other women.

I am confused and don't know what to do, Help.